1. A Clean, Aesthetic Environment = A Clear Mind

Your outer space reflects your inner space.

• Declutter your room, desk, and digital space.
  A clear environment minimizes mental overload and helps you stay focused and productive.

• Match your space with your vibe. Add neutral tones, mirrors, and plants to promote calm and energy flow.

🧼 Pro Tip: Wipe down surfaces daily and use scent diffusers or candles to create your “clean girl” signature scent.

A clean space isn’t just visual—it supports a disciplined, stylish, and intentional lifestyle.

2. Build Your Personal Aesthetic & Signature Style Formula

Forget trends—it-girls know what works for them.

• Define your 3-style words. Example: Minimal. Soft. Luxe.

• Create your Outfit Formula: a go-to combo that always flatters you (e.g., satin slip dress + oversized blazer + chunky gold hoops). Check out my capsule wardrobe planner blog

• Audit your closet monthly. Keep what fits your aesthetic and actually gets worn.

📌 Try this: Build a digital capsule wardrobe using Notion. Track what pieces you love, repeat, and re-buy. Also plan for the week ahead, download my easy simple weekly outfit planner designed for you!

3. Health: Nourish from the Inside Out

If you’re glowing, it starts with what you’re doing off camera.

• Drink water like it’s your job (2–3L a day minimum).

• Prioritize gut health with fiber-rich foods and fermented options like yogurt and kimchi.

• Move your body daily—even if it's just a hot girl walk or 15 minutes of stretching.

• Keep your phone away while eating. Mindful meals = better digestion and better skin.

🌿 Supplements like magnesium, omega-3s, and collagen can support overall wellness—but consistency is key.

💡 4. Have a Purpose That Moves You

No it-girl is just vibes. She’s also mission-driven.

• Ask: What am I building this season?

• Journal weekly to realign with your purpose—whether that’s content creation, starting a side hustle, or acing your studies.

🔑 Tools to help:

• Notion templates for goal setting

• Pinterest boards for vision mapping

• Spotify playlists to hype you up

• Weekly outfit planners to plan prior to the week

Purpose fuels your glow. When you're lit up inside, your style, mood, and energy reflect it.

🧠 5. It-Girl Mindset: Romanticize, Don't Idealize

The key is this: You’re already her. Just align your habits to match.

• Practice self-talk that feels like your best friend cheering you on.

• Limit doomscrolling—curate your feeds with creators who uplift, not drain.

• Replace “I need to…” with “I get to…”

🧘‍♀️ Morning routine idea:

• Water

• 5-minute journal

• Skincare

• Movement

• Outfit styling

• 1 task toward your dream life

The mindset shift from “trying to be her” to “already being her” changes everything.

🧴 6. Skincare That Works (Not Just Looks Good)

Minimal, consistent skincare wins over overdone routines every time.(I'm a sucker for home remedies)

Quick Home Remedies for Glowy Skin (Style-Approved)

• Honey + Turmeric Mask: Brightens dull skin and fades blemishes

Mix 1 tsp honey with a pinch of turmeric. Leave on for 10 minutes, then rinse.

• Green Tea Toner: Shrinks pores and soothes redness

Brew green tea, let it cool, and spritz on face or apply with cotton.

• Aloe Vera Gel: Natural glow + hydration

Apply fresh aloe overnight for plump morning skin.

💧 Game-Changing Skincare Products You Can Trust

• Sunscreen Everyday no matter what(non-negotiable).

• Lash serum. (Fuller lashes make you instantly put together).

• A good moisturizer is a must ,cant say enough about it.

• Dark circles repair (okay so this one worked for my crazy dark circles. Nobody has to know what we've been to all night)

• Retinol or AHA at night (2–3x/week)

• Serum at night.

Honestly I highly recommended Dermelect Cosmeceuticals because it works for me
A luxury-meets-science brand that delivers real results without irritation.

7. Bodycare is the Hidden Flex (and Perfume = Signature)

Your skin goes beyond your face—treat your whole body like it’s on display.

• Exfoliate 2x/week with dry brushing or gentle scrubs

• Moisturize daily (bonus if it’s scented)

• Add shimmering body oil for a glow-up moment

• Body toning cream. (Body care is a must to flaunt your summer body).

• Signature It-Girl Perfumes That are my absolute favorite. -

  Yves Saint Laurent Libre Perfume for Women – Luxe, confident, unforgettable

  Ariana Grande Mod Perfume for women - Luxe, Vanilla, musky

  Burberry Her Elixir – Sweet girl energy with depth

  Valentino Donna Perfume – Clean, musky, desert, vanilla, rich girl vibes

  Ariana Grande Cloud – Cozy vanilla musk for everyday slay

  Chloe Love Story Perfume for Women- Romantic, Floral, smells like true love

  Miss Dior Rose N’Roses Perfume for Women- Roses, fresh, perfect for summer

Spray wrists, behind knees, hairbrush. Make it your trademark. (Use Vaseline before applying ,makes your perfumes long-lasting)

💰 8. Finances: An It-Girl Stays In Her Bag

Being stylish and broke is not a vibe. Build your soft life with savings.

• Track your spending weekly (Notion, , or cute printable PDFs)

• Use a “wants vs. needs” list before big buys

• Set a monthly “It-Girl Budget”: Fashion, Beauty, Fun, Investments

💡 Tip: Resell your old clothes, recommend dupes with links, and promote style templates to earn passively.

Smart girls spend with intention. The real flex? Financial peace and Prada aesthetics.

👑 Final Word: You're Already Her

The It-Girl lifestyle isn’t for gatekeeping—it's for building your dream life with clarity, softness, and power. Whether you’re redoing your skincare, finding your capsule style, or finally investing in your goals, this checklist is your blueprint.

🌟 Save it. Print it. Pinterest it. Most importantly—live it.